What do you consider cheating? There are many ways someone can cheat on their husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend. Two of the biggest ways someone can cheat on you is emotionally and physically. Some people believe that emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating. Women are more inclined to start off cheating on an emotional level. But we all know emotional cheating leads to physical cheating as well. Men are mainly physical cheaters. They want to get in and out a couple times and then forget about it. Take for example this poor schmuck who believes his wife cheated on him with a co-worker. Based on her actions and the fact that his gut tells him she did, she more than likely did cheat on him. It is said that when most people cheat, its usually with a co-worker or someone they are friendly with. Check out his story.
It all began when my wife said she had to stay after school for a while to do some extra work. She started coming home and almost all of her conversations centered around a male co-worker. She was always telling me how cute he was, how good looking he was, how built he was, how good he was with the students, how all of the 8th grade girls had a crush on him, how wonderful he was, and how he was a male dancer. She seemed obsessed with him. Meanwhile she was becoming more and more distant from me. When I would try to kiss her she would turn her head and only let me kiss her on her cheek. She would say something like "you had onions, didn't you". I would make sure that nothing I ate had onions, brush my teeth, floss, use mouthwash, and still she would say the same thing. She wouldn't let me near her in bed and wouldn't say goodnight unless I said it first, and again would only let me kiss her on her cheek. She kept coming home later and later, and it seemed all she could talk about was this other man. She would actually light up when she spoke about him.
He was engaged, but he and his fiance were allowed to date other people. And he told my wife that he saw nothing wrong with dating married women. My wife, of course, said his fiance wasn't good enough for him.
Once, when she actually let me kiss her, she stated that she didn't like the way I kissed her and turned away from me. This was after being married for 7 going on 8 years (with one son). This went on for quite a while. So I stopped saying goodnight to her to see what would happen, and nothing happened between us for 3 months.
One night while we were watching TV there was a really built man, shirtless, on TV with a great 6-pack. She said that's what the guy's abs at school look like. I asked her how she knew that. This other teacher was a gym teacher and wore shorts and t-shirts to school. She told me he would stand around in cafeteria duty with the shirt rolled up around his arms. She also said he would lean against the counter and 8th grade girls would come up to talk to him and actually walk up between his legs to get closer to him. She was more upset over the girls doing this than over him letting them.
Now she was staying after school all of the time and getting home later and later so I decided to surprise her by visiting her at school. She was in her room, but the first thing she did was want me to meet this other guy. We went down to the pool because he was the swim coach. When he saw me he immediately threw her a look like, what are you thinking. There was obvious tension there. She just seemed so happy for me to meet him.
I had to play this guy in our racquetball league and after our 3 games we talked for a short while. He brought up a couple of things that I thought were personal between my wife and me and I asked him how he knew this. He said my wife and he talked a lot during cafeteria duty. Deep down in I just wanted to deck the guy.
Once, when my wife came home from school, I met her at the front door to try to give her a hug and a kiss, and she just pushed past me. She said she had been doing some cleaning after school and that she was too dirty for me to be near her and that she had to jump in the shower right away. She didn't look all that dirty or disheveled.
Anyways, after the 3 months of nothing happening between us I tried to get near her in bed one night. As expected she turned me away. So I asked her if she was seeing another man. She said no, that she would never do that to me, and then became much more attentive to me. Amazingly, she began coming home on time and stopped talking about this other guy. One night in bed she asked me who I thought she was having an affair with. I mentioned this other guy and she just laughed at me. This made me angry, so I went and slept on the couch.
Before we were married she cheated on me and almost the exact same things occurred, but she didn't want to lose me and I didn't want to lose her.
We've had quite a few fights over this guy from her school and she adamantly denies that anything happened between them. She said they were just friends.
One year she was put on a partial contract because there were not a full day of classes for her to teach. This other guy had the same number of classes to teach, but was kept on a full contract. At a union meeting she questioned this, and I know she was hoping to get some support from this other guy. He said nothing to support her, and I know this devastated her. I know that deep down in she had fallen in love with this guy, and when he didn't help her, I think she was shaken to the core and actually had her eyes opened. We're still together, but I can't seem to let it go. She gets very upset with me If I bring it up, because she feels I don't trust her. Deep down in I know what I believe, but I don't have any
