Like women, men can get mind blowing pleasure through nipple stimulation. Its not just women who get this pleasure. For decades some men were unaware that nipple play during sex with a partner could take them to new sexual highs especially if its done right.
Indeed, unlike the penis, which can be placed strategically to give as well as receive pleasure, our male nipples keep us on the receiving end. It is this that makes nipples a delight or, for those who’d rather stay firmly in the driver’s seat of sexual pleasure, a threat—and possibly the very reason fewer heterosexual men favored nipple play in the 1960s Masters & Johnson's study.
Other men simply didn't consider their nipples part of an erogenous zone. In fact, many men describe being taught about their nipples by a partner, though you can also teach yourself. We advise that you take it extremely slow, as in "in slow motion," until you figure out what level of stimulation suits you best. For some, a simple grazing with moistened fingertips is very stimulating; others crave harder pulling, or tugging on the chest hair that sometimes surrounds them. Still others apply clamps or enjoy pinching. And if you've never explored your nipples, you're in for a treat, and a surprise, because the more you play, the more erect they will become, and it's this raising of the nipple that we call the active ingredient making them the last great bastion of sexual pleasure on a man's body. -BL
